I am very grateful for my friend R.W. He’s been taking me to and from my house to Ashland every day since the Infiniti broke down.   He didn’t have to.  He does it as a blessing to me and my family.  I am still debating what to do about transportation.  My wife’s car belongs to her mom and dad and they have forbidden me from driving it.  I roll my eyes at this because I’m 40.   Sheesh, get over it people.  On the Infiniti, we still owe 6200 on it.  So what is one to do?  I feel backed into a corner.    If anyone out there has any ideas, let me know.  Oh, and the car is a total loss.  It either threw a rod, or it seized up.